In reading your blog post, I took the time to reflect on
some of the social situations I have been in, where I would tend to behave
differently depending on the moral context. Your example of church, as a social situation where it is
not moral to swear, made me think of my childhood as a sort of conditioning for
how I behave depending on the situation.
Growing up I went to church every Sunday, which meant that at a young
age I was taught how I was expected to behave in that particular space. The interesting thing is, I don’t
remember a specific time where I was told, “Claire, this is how you are meant
to behave when we are at church. You are supposed to sit quietly and listen. You
are not meant to answer questions, or put your hand up like in school. You are
to speak to the other people in the church before and after the service, but
not during”. These were all things
that I must have observed, or were implied, and I automatically followed
them. Those were the church codes
that I was expected to know and abide by, but not necessarily understand. There are a number of social situations
we find ourselves in where we are expected to behave a certain way, and
sometimes we don’t even question why it is that way, we just follow.
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